Find someone that you think is a good climber and watch their technique. Pay attention to their body position and footwork. Most importantly ask them questions and keep climbing.
www.amazon.com/Girl-Rocks-Climbing-Strength-Courage/dp/07627>>> The book helped a close friend of mine last summer.
Guys I don't think she is still looking to this thread for advice... I think that if she does not have a partner by now she may have quit climbing. But keep laying out the advice.