Advice to someone who had their belayer drop them (twice)
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Entertaining effort, but it kind of misses the point.. |
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In the past and present have males ever been regarded as not being as intelligent/competent as females? No.
I would tend to disagree with this statement. Shows like Family Guy, The Simpsons, Always Sunny in Philadelphia, Everybody Loves Raymond and a bunch of other CBS-type sitcoms (names of which I don't know because I haven't watched TV regularly in a while) often portray the male main character as less than smart while his female counter part as the calm, collective voice of reason. Maybe you weren't referencing pop-culture, but anything broadcast over mass media to millions of people will have an effect on a society/culture. |
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Eric Chabot wrote: you trollI find it interesting how this thread brings out the insults. Definitely some nerves being hit. Eric Chabot wrote:Pejorative objectification of the dominant group (males) isn't offensive.Got it. Men are not allowed to be offended, ever, because by definition insulting men is not offensive. Perhaps we should make insulting the Dominant Group a required daily activity in primary school, to help speed our way to a society of True Equality. |
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Christian wrote:Entertaining effort, but it kind of misses the point.. It's precisely the power imbalance (physical, social, political, financial) that makes the risk of being objectified dangerous to the recipient. Any example where there's really very little risk to the person in question is kind of pointless.I don't follow. What is the "risk" in the original story? Edit: on second thought, this is Bill's thread, and he's asked for no more arguing, so...I'm out. |
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Go back and reread some of the posts from the women, that might enlighten you as to what they feel the risk is. |
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Sorry I called you a troll. Forgive the assumption, it was based on your anonymous handle, minimally filled out profile, and inflammatory rhetoric. |
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Eric Chabot wrote:Pejorative objectification of the dominant group (males) isn't offensive.This is sexist too, yet non of the feminists have mentioned anything about it. What do you have to say about that? Eric Chabot wrote:In the past and present have males ever been regarded as not being as intelligent/competent as females? No.actually, in an episode of Futerama, they encounter a planet ruled by women where males are regarded as only being useful for "baby-making" |
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For those who can't tell the difference, this is thin skinned, easily offended whining. Billcoe wrote:My advice to someone who had their belayer drop them ...twice, follows. EDITED: Shortened AND deleted per request from something I actually had seen with my own eyes, twice and damned near exact as I SAW happen to others: to the following fantasy bullshit points so as to have a worthless post that both helps and offends no one. 1) Meh. Don't learn anything from your accident and don't learn from others hard won experience, just go get dropped again. 3rd times a charm? Hip Hip. That's why we pay rescue folks after all, and they'd just be sitting around watching cartoons and eating sugar pops and Captain Crunch all morning, so getting them off their lazy asses is a benefit to them and to you. 2) Wear your helmet. Kidding. Everyone says it though so it must be true. It won't matter when your tib/fibs are up in your stomach area and your vertabrea scrunched so tight you think Mini-me is a giant (opps, my apologies to any offended "little people or vertically challenged persons"). But my point is that with modern medical thinggys, you'll be back to climbing harder than ever before. 3) Trial and error worked fine for your grandparents, so keep on (once all of the breaks heal) and don't give up. You'll probably eventually get it sorted out. Try try try again and all that shit. I mean, many before you have recovered from injuries and they continue to lead full and happy climbing lives. That might be you the 3rd, 4th and 5th time you slap dirt. It might not even happen again. Haha, and I have a bridge I'll sell you too. 4) Please try and flap your arms like wings like Wiley Coyote in the Road Runner Cartoons to maneuver, as your ass is flying though the air, so as to miss the rocks at the base. Carry on. Beep-beepThis isn't. Em Cos wrote:Your possibly valid points about mentoring new climbers are completely overshadowed by your absolutely disgusting post. I'm too appalled to be more eloquent than this: You are super gross.Neither is this. eli poss wrote: If I say something that offends somebody I respond be either apologizing or telling them to grow some thicker skin, depending on the situation. . |
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Pejorative objectification of the dominant group (males) isn't offensive. eli poss wrote: This is sexist too, yet non [sic] of the feminists have mentioned anything about it. What do you have to say about that?Pejorative objectivication of men might be offensive--it might offend some individuals; it might even be prejudiced against men--but it's not "sexist." Sexism is the combination of sex/gender prejudice plus power. "Power," of course, being a thing men have and women have less of. Women are discriminated against and marginalized in our society. So for women to say "mean" things about men is NOT sexist, because women do not have the power to oppress men in our society (on the whole, individual exceptions are out there - men can be raped too, for example). Men who say "mean" things about women, on the other hand, are perpetuating the sexist status quo, and their own (collective) power. This is a pretty easy to understand primer on the concept: everydayfeminism.com/2015/0… |
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I have been avoiding creating an account on this site for a couple of years now. My boyfriend has one here and it seems like all I ever see is just endless trolling, but alas, I feel as though this craziness has compelled me enough...I am a woman, 30 years old (in case anyone wonders) and I am a climber. I am in NO WAY offended by the original post, in fact, when I first read it (the unedited version) I found it amusing. I just wanted to get on here and make sure that it is clear that not ALL women are offended by this post. Also, in my experience, most of the women that I have ever had the pleasure of knowing in any real way have been the filthiest, foulest of mouth and equally as objectifying as any other person out there so....in the name of feminism I happily chuckle at the original post and reserve my right for any objectifying of the opposite sex that I am sure I will participate in in the future. |
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snobbit wrote:Pejorative objectification of the dominant group (males) isn't offensive. Pejorative objectivication of men might be offensive--it might offend some individuals; it might even be prejudiced against men--but it's not "sexist." Sexism is the combination of sex/gender prejudice plus power. "Power," of course, being a thing men have and women have less of. Women are discriminated against and marginalized in our society. So for women to say "mean" things about men is NOT sexist, because women do not have the power to oppress men in our society (on the whole, individual exceptions are out there - men can be raped too, for example). Men who say "mean" things about women, on the other hand, are perpetuating the sexist status quo, and their own (collective) power. This is a pretty easy to understand primer on the concept: everydayfeminism.com/2015/0… |
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(The hell is a snobbit, anyways?!?) |
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In response to all the heated response
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R Kelly, how can you propose to have a conversation about a topic under the guise of being enlightened then proceed to insult anyone that may disagree with you? |
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The only part of this thread I enjoyed reading was ubu's comments regarding Words equal power only if you let it be so. |
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TR Hero, you should edit/ remove your first post because it makes you look like an ignorant martyr the way you bashed the shit out of bill to no end. The glaring fact you overlooked was that he was asked to edit/ remove his post Your argument is less compelling by the fact that you weakened your character's image by ridiculing him to the extent you did. Also we have such staunchly different viewpoints I realize there is no point for me to respond to your arguments and I wouldn't know where to begin. r m wrote:Arguing in threads like this you will get no satisfaction, and you can be 99% certain no ones mind will be changed.I actually wanted to share an experience I had, as I often do have revelations. I saw nothing wrong with Billcoe's original post, although I did think it was a little queer. I saw nothing wrong with the first thing em cos wrote. I (knowing I shouldn't have) spoke up only when this turned into a "look how males are pigs and they're always offending us" thread. I did so because I firmly believed that I am not a pig, I have respect for women, and the OP while being crude as hell shouldn't be written off as such either. Anyway all this is mumbo-jumbo, here's what I wanted to share. When BillS requoted the original post, I scanned through it. In my head I was saying "Where is he being demeaning to women and objectifying them?" And I got through a paragraph or two "nope not here" "nope" and then I got to the condoms part and I thought "holy shit, there it is, that's fucked up". So then I finished reading the post trying to figure out where else it might be, and trying to recompose my thoughts. Then I figured I owed the community an apologize since I apparently had mis-seen what others saw. Now here is my point. When I then re-read it again and tried to find the part which I found offensive. I couldn't find it. I read over the condoms part 5 times in a row and couldn't see what I saw seconds earlier. So what I am trying to say from this, is not, "that women are looking for offensive comments from men", but rather I am saying that in two different mindsets, I was able to see or not see the offensive nature of it. So anyone can keep badgering on about how I'm a misogynist. But I'd like women to understand that while they are fighting their battle against oppression or such, that there is also the other side of it which is that men are saying or doing things, with no intent to harm, offend, oppress, etc... and their actions are being misinterpreted (heck their actions are being attacked). Now I dare to ask this. If a man does something and a woman perceives it as wrong, is it wrong? If it is wouldn't that be a feminine dominated mindset? That men's actions should be subservient to the approval of women? I'd also like to say that I was offended by whoever wrote earlier that I wanted to silence women, or that men want to silence women, that really bothered me. I think it was unfounded and a cheap shot and it painted me/ men in a bad light. I'm also saddened by the fact that em cos hasn't replied again because I am in fear that she may share that sentiment, that her opinion doesn't matter, or that it should be silenced. Criticize as you like, just trying to be honest and open. Edit: And I think I flew off the handle, I've just seen this public-shaming thing go on so much lately, I think I took all that pent up frustration from those events and applied it to something I so quickly wrote off as an invalid. I can understand how others can be offended by that post, I still don't personally find what he said to be offensive to women, and I would appreciate anyone who can see that while they take offense to it, they could understand that it was not Billcoe's intention or necessarily his operating model of being oppressive to women. It was him speaking in a particular way, an exaggerated way, to draw attention to what he felt was a concerning issue. |
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mediocre wrote:R Kelly, how can you propose to have a conversation about a topic under the guise of being enlightened then proceed to insult anyone that may disagree with you?Hhhmmmmm....rats. You see how I did there? I tried to do the one thing...but then ended up taking it the other way. I am (sometimes) SUCH the douche... |
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Dan Austin wrote: and furthermore, why don't we have a WHITE history month?!???!?!Hahahahaaaa...we do! It's called, "the calendar." |